{"id":511102,"date":"2011-09-04T00:00:00","date_gmt":"2011-09-04T00:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/episcopalchurch:8888\/sermon\/todays-gospel-lesson-proper-18-a-2011\/"},"modified":"2026-08-10T11:52:16","modified_gmt":"2026-08-10T15:52:16","slug":"todays-gospel-lesson-proper-18-a-2011","status":"publish","type":"sermon","link":"https:\/\/staging.episcopalchurch.org\/es\/sermons\/todays-gospel-lesson-proper-18-a-2011\/","title":{"rendered":"Today’s Gospel Lesson…, Proper 18 (A) – 2011"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Today\u2019s gospel lesson is part of Jesus\u2019 teaching about our life together in community, how it is that we are to live and love within the Christian community, especially when things go wrong. And because we are talking about human beings living in community, we can be fairly sure that things will go wrong.
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\nOur Biblical story is quite realistic when it comes to the ability of human beings to get along. Even two people living in paradise can\u2019t seem to manage it very well. Not only do they sin against God, they also turn on one another, playing the blame game. Once they sin, a gap opens up, not only between Adam and Eve, but also between themselves and God. In their shame, the human beings try to hide themselves with fig leaves from the gaze of their Lord, symbolizing their distance from the God who used to walk with them and talk with them in the garden. The effect of sin makes it hard not only for human beings to look each other in the eye, but also for them to encounter God face to face. And sure enough, as the story of the Old Testament unfolds, God makes fewer and fewer face-to-face appearances. Moses gets to see God, but the after-effects of that face-to-face encounter are too much for the Hebrew people to bear. It just becomes too hard, too painful for humans with our failings and flaws to look on the face of God and live.
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\nBut that distance doesn\u2019t keep God away. That\u2019s one of the reasons God came among us, as a flesh-and-blood human, to be with people face to face. Imagine the healing power present in the moment when Jesus looked Peter in the eye and said, \u201cPeter, do you love me?\u201d When he cupped in his hands the face of the woman caught in adultery and said, \u201cYour sins are forgiven you. Go and sin no more.\u201d When he healed the man born blind and the first thing the man saw was the face of Jesus looking at his own with eyes of love. When he appeared, face to face, with the women outside the tomb on that first Easter morning and said, \u201cDo not be afraid; go and tell my brothers to go to Galilee; there they will see me.\u201d
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\nThe face-to-face encounters of Christians with Christ were not to end when he rose from the dead and ascended into heaven. One of Christ\u2019s gifts to us is the gift of community, where we meet our brothers and sisters heart to heart, spirit to spirit, and face to face. Christian community is that place, that way of being, where we know, and are known by, the Love at the center of the community: God, a life-giving, sacrificial, persistent love that calls us to reach beyond ourselves, to realize we are connected, woven together into one body, the family of God. Together, in Christian community we can share grief and joy, sorrow and victory, sadness and celebration. Christian community is a gift.
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\nBut it\u2019s a gift we don\u2019t fully accept. Living in community is hard. As that growing sector in our society, the spiritual-but-not-religious folks might put it, \u201cChurches have too many people to deal with; we\u2019d rather just be spiritual on our own.\u201d
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\nBut Jesus taught that faith is not a private matter. Spirituality is not something we do individually. Our faith is not something we can go off and enjoy by ourselves all alone, sitting by a stream or walking in the woods. Those things and times of private devotion can feed our faith, but our life in Christ happens when we are gathered together, even just two or three together. That\u2019s when Jesus said he would be with his disciples. Not when they are off alone and feeling holy.
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\nIsn\u2019t it easier sometimes to feel holy when there is no one else around? Life, as Christians, living together in a Christian community is not always easy. We are humans, after all, and while we may have God as our Ground and Guide, the Almighty never-ending source of love, for Whom nothing is impossible, we forget and fail and fall out of love with God and each other.
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\nThat\u2019s why Jesus taught and Matthew wrote this eighteenth chapter of the gospel. It\u2019s about how to deal with the fact that we fail. What ought we to do, what would Christ have us do, when someone in the community sins? When someone does something harmful to themselves, harmful to another, something that puts a distance between themselves and God, or between themselves and the community?
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\nThe first step is to go to them, face to face. Jesus says, \u201cIf another member of the church sins against you, go and point out the fault when the two of you are alone. If the member listens to you, you have regained that one.\u201d
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\nJesus\u2019 teaching here is first about reconciliation, restoration of a brother or sister to the community. It is not about pointing out sin for the sake of pointing out sin. It is not about making us feel better or proving a point. It is about regaining a brother or sister. It is about living together as one family.
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\nIn some families, the illusion of harmony is more important than anything else. In some families, confrontation is to be avoided at all costs. In some families, the way hurt is dealt with is to pretend nothing happened, sweep it under the rug. In some families, silence is golden. If you can\u2019t say something nice, don\u2019t say anything at all, and if there\u2019s a problem, keep it to yourself.
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\nJesus\u2019 instruction for his family is very different. In the Christian household, when your brother sins, you go talk with him in private. And if that doesn\u2019t work, step two is to keep going back, taking other people along the next time, and step three is go back again. Do everything in your power to get your sister back.
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\nIf the person does not listen over and over again, then we are not to pretend that nothing has happened. If the person won\u2019t let go of the sin, of what\u2019s causing the harm, of what\u2019s endangering the person or the community, then we are to recognize that one of our members has left the family. We are to notice and lament that our brother or sister is missing from the table. There is distance between us and we should best admit it, rather than pretend not to notice or let that person fester in our midst like an untended wound.
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\nHard teaching, right? Straight forward enough, but hard to act on, right? Often we prefer a love that is out of focus, filmed in soft light and hazy, not the holy love that takes action and risk and is willing to confront, in love, a brother or sister in Christ. And to confront someone, even in love, is scary.
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\nJohn Wesley, the great eighteenth-century theologian, realized the risk involved when he used today\u2019s text when members of his parish were gossiping, complaining about one another behind each other\u2019s backs. He said of this first step of going privately to speak directly to someone, to confront him about his behavior, \u201cDo not avoid it so as to \u2018shun the cross.\u2019\u201d
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\nShun the Cross! That\u2019s how hard it might feel to go speak directly, rather than taking the easy way out, using some of our more usual ways of dealing with conflict. You know those ways: Pretend it didn\u2019t happen, try to just let it go. Meanwhile, be awkward around the person. A second strategy is the cold shoulder, avoidance. Don\u2019t say anything to the person, but cross the street to avoid having to meet them. There\u2019s a third strategy, called \u201crevenge.\u201d Never talk about what really happened, but make sure everyone knows somehow that person X is not to be trusted. Don\u2019t talk directly with the person, but let your hurt and anger seep into everything you do and say, poison the air around you, and put more and more distance between you and the person who did wrong.
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\nDistance. That\u2019s the key word here, isn\u2019t it? Community is about togetherness, realizing that we are all connected. Heaven is that place where nothing can come between us and God, between us and God\u2019s love for us. Hell is about distance. In a sermon about today\u2019s gospel reading, the writer Randy Hyde recalls that C. S. Lewis, in his book, The Great Divorce<\/em>, imagines hell as a vast gray city. It\u2019s a city inhabited only at its outer edges with rows and rows of empty houses in the middle, empty because everyone who once lived in them has quarreled with the neighbors and moved, and then fought with the new neighbors and moved again, leaving streets of empty houses behind them. That is how hell got so large, Lewis says. It\u2019s empty at the center and lived in only at the distant fringes because everyone in it chose distance instead of confrontation as the solution to wrongs done against one another.
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\nWe\u2019re back to that word: \u201cconfrontation.\u201d It sounds scary, but it really means bringing people face to face, front to front, to talk and hear about what is going on between them. And this is just what Jesus recommends. It seems to be not only the best way to stop the spread of hell, but also the best way of following Christ. Jesus says our relationships with each other are worth it. And he should know. He went to the cross, to take on our sins, to wrestle them away from us, rather than say they don\u2019t matter. He was willing to die and even come back so that we might be reconciled, so that we can come together face to face. So the least we can do is go, sit face to face, talk, listen, go back some more, bring more faces, more ears, let the person know they are so precious, we\u2019re not letting them go easily.
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\nWhat about when people refuse to acknowledge their sins, change their ways, come back into the house? What if their continued presence in the family would be harmful? Well, then, says Jesus, \u201cLet such a one be to you as a Gentile and a tax collector.\u201d Yes, they should be treated as those who are on the outs, those who are outside the family. And here\u2019s the twist: those are the very people Jesus made a special focus of his ministry. He reached out to them with the message that they could turn away from sin, they could come home. Indeed, Jesus was known as a friend of tax collectors and sinners.
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\nThere is risk in meeting each other face to face. We might prefer to hide behind fig leaves or whatever is close at hand, rather than take the risks Jesus did. But the story of Jesus and his teaching shows us there is power and promise in meeting each other face to face, especially when we fall, when we fail, when we stumble or hurt. God, who knows every one of us, our weaknesses, our faults and failings, longs to draw us close to God and one another. Someday, maybe, we will even know the joy of seeing God face to face, without fear or shame. In the meantime, we can turn face to face with our brothers and sisters in Christ, and meet Christ who promises to be present when we meet face to face in his name.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This sermon was written by the Rev. Joseph S. Pagano<\/strong>.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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